Sunday, April 5, 2015

Apa yang kita umpatkan tentang orang lain sebenarnya menceritakan siapa kita

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم Assalaamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatullaahi Wa Barakaatuh اللهم صل على محمد وآل محمد



SubhanAllah you guys absolutely shocked and disgusted by the hate we got for a poster on periods. Especially after a disclaimer was posted mentioning that we cannot change it. Why is it that sisters just cannot overlook a single thing they do not like.
According to us and our graphic designers that poster is absolutely appropriate. If it doesn't feel appropriate to you please learn to ignore it. We keep posters relevant.
We are women. We bleed. And that poster is not even blood! Its just a photoshop spray painting of red color. It is not like we went to some crime scene and took a photograph of blood spilled.
We were dissed and asked to start posting naked bodies and stools as they are natural as well. Ofcourse we will never do that naked body is awrah and stools are filth. Why so much hate and stretching of a simple thing.
We had people attack our intentions, accuse us of being arrogant and what not! Ajeeb.
I pray these reminders benefit everyone who are too eager to point out mistakes and diss people. I feel sometimes you lot forget that admins are humans and your fellow sisters in Islam and we have rights upon you all and the hate DOES bother us.
"Some people have the disease of criticizing all the time. They forget the good about others and only mention their faults. They are like flies that avoid the good and pure places and land on the bad and wounds. This is because of the evil within the self and
the spoiled nature."
- Ibn Taymiyyah rahimahullah
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Abd Allah reported that the Prophet of Allah, upon him be peace, said, "A believer is not a fault-finder and is not abusive, obscene, or course."
Bukhari's Book of Manners #313
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Ibn 'Abbas said, "If you wish to mention the faults of your friend, mention your own faults first."
Bukhari's Book of Manners #329
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Ibn 'Abbas said on the following verse of the Qur'an, "Nor defame one another" (49:11), "Do not spend your time finding fault with one another."
Bukhari's Book of Manners #330
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Jubayr ibn Nufayr reported that Mu'adh ibn Jabal said, "If you love someone, do not quarrel with him and do not annoy him. Do not ask others about him, for the one you ask might be his enemy and thus tell you things about him that are not true and thus break you apart."
Bukhari's Book of Manners #545
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'Amr ibn al 'As said, "...I am amazed at one who spots an impurity in the eye of another but is unable to detect it in his/her own eye, or who attempts to remove a grudge from another's heart while making no attempt to remove grduges from his/her own heart. I have never blamed anyone for the confidences of mine that they have betrayed. How could I, when already they have given me reason for pause?"
Bukhari's Book of Manners #889
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Bilal ibn Sa'd al Ash'ari reported that Mu'awiyah wrote to Abu Darda' "Write to the wrongdoers of Damascus." So he asked, "What do I have to do with the wrongdoers of Damascus? How will I know them?" Abu Darda's son, Bilal said, "I will write to them," which he did. Then Abu Darda' said [to Bilal], "How did you know to whom to write? You could not have known they were wrongdoers unless you were one of them. Begin with yourself!" So he did not address the letter in anyone's name.*
*i.e. he didn't single out a specific person as a wrongdoer, but spoke about wrongdoings in general, to come as a reminder (of Quran and Sunnah) to the people.
Bukhari's Book of Manners #1295
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Abu Huraira reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as saying: The servant (who conceals) the faults of others in this world, Allah would conceal his faults on the Day of Resurrection.
Muslim :: Book 32 : Hadith 6267
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Narrated by Abu Hurariah: The Prophet said, "Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the worst of false tales; and do not look for the others' faults and do not spy, and do not be jealous of one another, and do not desert (cut your relation with) one another, and do not hate one another; and O Allah's worshipers! Be brothers (as Allah has ordered you!")
Bukhari :: Book 8 :: Volume 73 :: Hadith 90
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Anas reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: I served the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) for nine years, and I do not know (of any instance) when he said to me: Why you have done this and that, and he never found fault with me in anything.
Muslim :: Book 30 : Hadith 5723
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Narrated Mu'awiyah:
I heard the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) say: If you search for the faults of the people, you will corrupt them, or will nearly corrupt them. AbudDarda' said: These are the words which Mu'awiyah himself from the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him), and Allah benefited him by them.
Dawud :: Book 41 : Hadith 4870
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Narrated Abu Huraira - The Prophet said, "Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the worst of false tales; and do not look for the others' faults and do not spy, and do not be jealous of one another, and do not desert (cut your relation with) one another, and do not hate one another; and O Allah's worshipers! Be brothers (as Allah has ordered you!")
To save ourselves from this sin and many others, one should act upon this Hadith which deserves to be written in gold. The Hadith states, “Whoever stayed quiet saved himself.”
This very sin which Muslims consider right is the sin which could send many to hell. The Prophet said, “The tongue is what will cause people to be flung face down into hell.”
Bukhari :: Book 8 :: Volume 73 :: Hadith 90
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