"You look so fat you need to lose weight"
"Do something about your pimples"
"Omg you cannot have kids try doing this or that"
"You look lovely and so full of energy"
"You are such a good mother"
"You are such a good friend"
"You can do it"... the list is endless
Someone might have pimples or are facing fertility issues due to some life long disease/hormonal imbalance and hardship we might have no idea about and they might have tried everything.
Lets praise them and the good they have instead of pointing out their flaws.
Lets make life a little easier for everyone.
I want you to reflect upon recent conversations you had and if you made a slip just like me. If you did make amendments and go back and highlight and praise them for their good. And make sure you do not repeat it with her or someone else.